About me

I married the love of my life. Gave her everything: dates, dinner, dessert, money, stability.
She asked me for a month off the relationship i knew that was it and ended it. I found out a year later she had a boyfriend — cheating on me for 3 months while I was her husband.
Then came another. Flights, dinners, sacrifices — but only on my side.
It was always me who had to move, change, give, bend. Never her.
Love wasn’t mutual — it was transactional.

I treated them like my own. I cooked, cleaned, carried the household.
And she? She destroyed my name. Painted me as crazy to my own family.
The only real moment of truth?
When the kids — in front of her — said I did nothing wrong.
She even used depression as a mask to get the government to pay for her bond.
Told me I needed to cover it because she thought it wouldn’t get approved in time. I found out a year later she lied.
The state paid the bond and half the rent — while I drained my pockets thinking I was helping.

Lavish seafood restaurants. Expensive hotels.
And after all that, she called me a tight ass.
Two weeks later, I found out she was cheating — with a man cheating on his own girlfriend to chase mine.

I’ve been lied to, used, cheated on, and manipulated — not because I was weak — but because I was told:
“Be a good man, and good will come to you.”
“Women are naturally loyal.”
“Love is about giving — and you’re the man, so give more.”
All lies.
This world doesn’t reward good men anymore.
It uses them, empties them, and calls them weak when they break.
I saw where this was heading.
If I kept going, I’d end up like some of the men who didn’t survive it —
the ones who lost everything: family, savings, sanity…
Some who ended their own lives because the court system took their children, their dignity, their freedom.

Not from love — but from the lie.
Not from women — but from the a system that punishes male loyalty and rewards female dysfunction.
I built Dating truth for men for guys — the ones who did everything right… and paid the highest price anyway.
This isn’t bitterness. It’s truth.
And if you’ve made it here, you’re not alone anymore.
This is your home now.
Let’s rebuild — without lies, without fear, and without ever being used again.